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𝕽𝖊𝖊🤍's avatar

I definitely relate on the whole pessimism thing. Cos as a person I believe, "if you expect disappointment, you wouldn't be disappointed". That's why I prepare myself for the worst to happen that when it finally happens, it's not as surprising.

Good write up. Hats off to you🙌

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Zehisa's avatar

Thank you for reading and sharing your thoughts Reedah 😊.

Honestly, expecting disappointment seems like the easiest route to go in most situations but I'm learning that it's "fake comfort" that we give ourselves in the hopes that if we eventually get disappointed it won't hurt (it does still.) Old habits die hard, gradually we'll infuse optimism into our daily lives.

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Rojo_Dml's avatar

You are an inspiration 🥹..and you inspire me with your words...thank you ❤️.. don't stop writing💪🏾

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Zehisa's avatar

Thank you for reading Rojo😊.

I'm glad my words found a place in your heart.

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Bukunmi Ajayi's avatar

This was so beautiful to read and also relatable.

Thank you for sharing these lessons. ❤

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Zehisa's avatar

Thank you for your kind words Bukie 😊 and thank you for reading.

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